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What are the true signs that your marriage is over? What are the signs that your marriage is not worth fighting for? Welcome to HAPPILY COMMITTED

My name is Coach Adrian and I've dedicated my life helping people find happiness in their relationships. For a long time I helped people recover after break-up, separation, and divorces and now I'm focusing more on helping people create the relationship they want and to truly thrive in their relationship in order to avoid a breakup or a separation because I know how devastating it can be for both parties. And unfortunately sometimes a marriage is coming to an end. And I wanted to discuss the true signs that this is the end so that you know where you stand and you're not fighting in vain for a relationship that is quite frankly not worth fighting for.

The first sign that your marriage is over is when your partner is unable to stop putting their needs at your expense, even after you've communicated and try to rebuild a healthier marriage and connection in the relationship, if their happiness constantly comes at your expense and you are feeling worse, you're feeling overwhelmed, and quite frankly only one person is existing in that relationship, the marriage is coming to an end. Ultimately a relationship or marriage will be unbalanced if only one person is happy and that happiness comes and the others person's expense. So if you can relate to this it is probably a clear true sign that your marriage is over.

The second sign that a marriage is over is when you can't seem to find a way to get out of the blame mode or the blame game and it's quite common for people to argue to fight to bicker and to criticize in any relationship because we have a tendency of getting frustrated and it's a lot easier to blame someone else than to take accountability for our actions. But when after years and years, weeks after week, day after day, you are criticizing and blaming the other person's for your happiness and you are re-litigating past fights and living in the past it is a sign that your marriage is over.

The third sign that I've seen that indicated to me as a coach that my clients marriage was over is when one or the other party cannot seem to find any goodness in the other. And it's sad but I've seen this. I see this quite a lot towards the end of relationships or marriages where people are so consumed by their resentment their anger and they start to despise their significant other and they cannot even see one quality trait or attribute. And that unfortunately is very sad because clearly even though you may not be at a point where you can connect with each other, your partner has good qualities. They must. Because you fell for in love with them and because all human beings have a tendency to have good qualities. Unless of course you're in a toxic relationship or you're married to a sociopath. So if you cannot see any good in the man or the woman that you're with that is a clear sign that your marriage is over.

Another sign that your marriage is over is when your partner seeks to cut you off from your friends and your family, from the things that you love to do. And that extreme controlling behavior is a sign of toxicity and it's a sign that you need to make sure that you are aware of what's going on and that you're able to establish clear boundaries otherwise you're gonna find yourself in a downward spiral very quickly.

Ultimately if you or your partner are unwilling to change, if you or your partner think that the other person is the only issue, it's a sign that your marriage is over because a relationship or a marriage is like a garden that needs to be constantly and continuously nurtured and attended to. And when one person gives up the garden will grow weeds and unfortunately it is impossible to be in a relationship where both parties are not actively seeking to make it work. And we don't take divorce lightly. We are HAPPILY COMMITTED we want to make sure that no stone is left unturned, that everything is done before pulling the trigger because divorce is seldom not the right option for many people. We are HAPPILY COMMITTED and we want to make sure that everything is done in order to help you make sound decisions and to maximize your chances of being in a fulfilling healthy relationship with your spouse.

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79 thoughts on “Signs Your Marriage Is Over And Not Worth Fighting For | Signs You Need To Get Out NOW!

    1. Ask Angels and God to send you help. Don’t forget invisible armies are at work, working for Satan. These destroy couples happiness. I have been through some stuff so I know. I even saw not so nice stuff. My paranormal story on my channel. More videos soon. Peace from England UK

    2. Ikr! After 11 years, and An eight year old together, it’s pretty clear to me that #1 my husband’s cheating #2 It’s time to save myself, all of my energy trying to save my marriage, has been a big waste of my late 30’s

  1. I knew I had to make the decision to divorce when my husband pushed me down while pregnant with our first and now last child….

    It’s never easy to make these decisions, but it’s better to be happy and alone than to be miserable with the wrong person…..

    1. This is so true, I applaud 👏 you for making that decision but I also CONGRATS you moving on with your life.

    2. My husband did the same. I was 7 months pregnant with twins and I was financially unstable. I didn’t get out for another 2 years. 😕 Hope you’re in a better place now!

    3. Sometimes it better to just go on and start a new life, Sometimes it better to stay and work it out and takle problems 1 by 1. I’m made a decision 2 months ago with no emotions involved and I’m happy now, I just need to start the process.

    4. I agree! I’m sorry that it happened to you, it happens more than we wish. But yes you made the right choice. When they act that way it’s because they are dealing with issues way past what you can or could have helped them with. Don’t worry. There is someone right for you! Keep raising your standards.👍🏼♥️♥️♥️♥️

    5. That is so true sis.You are so brave for doing such thing you know your worth and you are a phenomenal woman.I am doing the same because I am in the same situation but sadly I lost that baby.

  2. Whoever is here looking for confirmation just know you’re amazing take deep breath and put your trust in god💕 you’re amazing and you’re not hurt poor or starving just thank god

    1. Thank you for those beautiful words, when it’s most needed. It’s very comforting to read your message. God bless you,

  3. Hmm. My husband is showing all these signs but insists he doesnt want a divorce! Im so tired of trying to reach out to him. I think its time to end this. Its hard but I have to see it for what it is and not for what it was.

    1. I can totally relate to this. I have decided to choose my peace and stop fighting alone. I deserve better and would rather be happily single.

    2. Wow don’t give up so easily. In my marriage I thought I was loving her by working. I worked so much that it was worse than adultery. I worked myself in to temporary disability. I neglected my wife my children my marriage and most of all .y relationship with God. I’ve been blessed God sent me a virtuous woman who endured the pain and neglected but she had understanding that my change would come on God’s time not hers. I am forever thankful that she never gave up. I will live for God the rest of my days.

  4. Sexually abused me while pregnant, lying, cheating & now, financially abusing me. There is no reason why I should allow myself to be treated this was. I’m strong enough to survive without him!!

    1. Thank you for reaching out. Please visit ttps:// and consider booking a 1:1 session so that we can help you on a personal level.
      Coach Adrian

    2. You can do it sis!!!!! You can do it!!!! No individual deserves to go through this. I wish you all the best and you will be better off without him 😘😘😘😘

  5. I feel like I’ve lost myself in my relationship. Sometimes I can’t recognize myself and I’ve become disappointed. For a while now, I feel like I don’t feel anything…. not, happy or sad. Everything just seems superficial. :/

    1. It’s so much easier to give advice than take it but I feel I have to tell you that your happiness matters… and our God wants our happiness. Pray and seek him and he will show you a way.

    2. I know the feeling. You have to get back to you because you’re living for the person you with to make them happy. If you don’t get that in return, you have to find your owe happiness .

    1. I understand it’s hard to walk away. Please take a look at this article to understand when to give up on an ex.
      Coach Adrian

    2. You more than anyone in your world deserve Happiness. Choose Happiness. Choose You. And Love Yourself 100%. 😘

  6. It’s when the arguments stop , my husband and I don’t even look at eachother, I sit upstairs and he sits downstairs. I am not allowed to have friends and he tells lies and manipulates everything inorder to get his own way . He has his family and my parents feeling sorry for him . All he is an abusive narcistic drunk . He has absolutely no social skills or personality whatsoever, he does not even have a relationship with our kids . We have not been out together socializing or at any family weddings in years . My life is a misery because of him , are there others like me ? Everyone seems to be much happier than me

    1. Reading your situation was like looking into a mirror at myself. You are not alone. The pandemic made my situation worse. I started living for me and my children. I fix myself up, my children and I go on outings, and I began to live. You have to find the will to live your best life. We only have one. Don’t waste it being in misery.

    2. Nope your not alone.Ive been married 10 of 15 yrs and it has been hell! We have been homeless most of those years.he dont want me to get ahead in life he never gave me nothing.He make sure things go his way no matter how it affects my life.He hated me to loose weight. Its like being KIDNAPPED but free to leave because he makes sure im crippled(not physically) so that i can depend on him and wont leave.He gets jealous of me.He is disgusting.He dont like to shower he will go weeks or over a month with no bath and he is big.The smell is sickening it smells like sewage.Disgusting hygiene.He gave me multiple infections .I hardly ever sleep with him so i would wake up and he is doing it while i was sleep.I hate this marriage he took everything from me and has also fooled my family and his and friends to thinking he is a good man by throwing me under the bus.No no sweetheart your not the only one going through some rough things❤Its been hell for me..He sabotaged my best jobs so today i sabotaged his by hiding the keys on his first day.We dont benefit from him having money anyway I think he is on drugs.He tells me all the time till death do us part or he says he will kill me if i leave.But i cant take it anymore.he is disgusting and all for himself he dont care about me

    3. Im going through everything you said aswell. Except for the drunk part. He’s a hypocritical “religious” when he feels like it man.

  7. I’m so unhappy we use to love each other so much its heart breaking what we have become I just feel like ending my life but i can’t do it because my kids there little faces that’s all I see

  8. It’s hard to hear but I told my husband tonight I’m leaving him tomorrow. I’ve tried so hard for so long.

  9. I left my husband 10 years after both of my children reached 18 years of age. We were married for 25 years but were together a total of 35 years. So many years of his cheating and making me feel less than led me to finally leave. It was devastating for some time but with the help of my dear friends I was able to get through. I am so glad I did. What I realized that it did not make a difference how good of a wife or husband you are they will still do what they want to do. Do not let yourself think that it is you because it isn’t. Know that some people lack the maturity to be a good wife, husband, mother or father. You will never be able to change them. It hurts but better to move on. At the end of the day you will thank yourself for it.

  10. Lord, bless all the couples with your love and patience.. my husband was loving,caring and supportive, everything a wife could ever ask for,but after being married for 7 yrs he passed away due to kidney failure.its been 15 yrs .l still cudnt get over it.we didn’t have a baby either.. but l still love him and could feel his presence every moment.prayers from India.

  11. It’s so saddening knowing that our relationship as husband and wife has all the signs that our marriage will never workout. I really wanted to get out of this toxic relationship..I hope one day I have the courage to leave him

    1. I’m Merry for 20 years and she can not have baby do make her happy we ad one boy still she says I don’t expression myself she met this way..

  12. Together year and a half married after just 6 months and here we are separating because he cant be nice ….absolutely insane

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