Save Your Marriage While Separated: Do This!

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This video examines what you can do to save your marriage during separation.

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Kimberly Beam, CEO of Marriage Helper, discusses several things you can do to save your marriage if you are separated.

These include SMART Contact™, avoiding PUSH behaviors, and managing business items together.

Find the areas of your marriage and relationship where you are going to have to talk about certain things (mortgages, taxes, children, property, pets, etc.).

Reach out to your spouse about positive things related to the children or business items.
This will prevent negative interactions and promote positive ones.

Doing these things will give you momentum in attempting to save your marriage while you are separated.

Avoid fighting as best you can. Change the cycle and be the best "you" that you can be during those times.

During these discusses you may ask your spouse questions such as, "How was your day today?"

You should ask questions that are non-emotional and won't start a disagreement.

Allow your spouse to start conversations with you. Allow them to open up to you about their day or about how they feel in terms of the separation.

Whether or not you agree with what your spouse is sharing, you must be a safe place for your spouse to share.

Show them that you can hear what they have to say and that even if you disagree with it that you can respond in a way that is calm, gentle, and understanding.

Don't go overboard by sounding artificial or fake. Be sincere and sometimes it is best simply to listen without commenting.

If your spouse, during separation, is rude and antagonistic to you, it is difficult.

You need to plan ahead of time that you will avoid allowing emotion or defensiveness to take over. Focus on the long term goal of saving your marriage.

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77 thoughts on “Save Your Marriage While Separated: Do This!

    1. She has given the best advice I’ve found so far…. Although it’s probably too late for me. But I can see how this advice would have helped and made differences

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    2. I agree. I made most of the mistakes. I feel like I should then work doubly hard to save our marriage. However, why should I fight for someone who won’t fight for me ? I start conversations she never does. I don’t want to waste my time either. Or worse give myself false hope.

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  1. Be watchful of others who try to take over your marriage and control your life by any means necessary. They will ruin any possiblity of you wanting to be with anyone period. Man people don’t know how to mind there own damn business. They created problems where there wasn’t any problems out of nowhere these thieves popped up. Devils they are!

  2. I just wanted to say that I listened to this a few months ago when my husband first left. It was hard to do at first because I was so hurt and DID NOT AGREE with a lot of what he did or said. But, I have come to the place of applying these behaviors and it has changed how my husband responds to me. He reaches out to me more about current things and doesn’t read his list of all I did wrong. He invites me to spend time with him. He invited me on a motorcycle ride last week. I told him I’d pack us a lunch, and it must have meant something to him because to my surprise and delight, he ended up taking me to the park where we had our very first picnic and motorcycle ride. He was still very guarded and distant, and I made sure not to over do my delight in his act of remembering and romance. I didn’t do much talking at all, but listened about his work and family. It went very well and I believe took down another brick in the wall he put up around his heart.
    In addition, I find myself much more at peace being away from him and even find joy in finding new friends and doing things to make myself the person I want to be with or without him.
    I found that when I have a lot to say in response to something he did or said that hurt or upset me…I write it all out in a text, but I let it sit overnight without sending, and usually by morning I realize that it’s not what I want to put on him, especially when I wake to nice greeting or even an apology from him for things he said. So, I copy and paste all of these messages onto notepad, because I believe my thoughts and feelings are important, but many times I find a better way to say it…or just delete it all together. But it helps to get those words out.
    Anyway, I appreciate these videos so much!
    I am so thankful for you!

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    1. RYAN JEANSON sounds like you’re getting played. After 2yrs it should be clear if you two will work or not, now she is the one benefiting

    2. oh my gosh. terrible. 2.5 months for me. but she will not talk to me or let me see my son. moved in with her parents so I don’t know how to implement any of these tips.

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  3. It’s so unfair…. Why am I not allowed to have emotions about what happened? Why is it all about them?

    1. Men have to be strong and silent.
      And we also have to be in control of our emotions.
      I agree sharing with other men with some beers.
      Getting it out of your system.
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    3. @Glugli dam bro i feel for you im going through something similar i messed up im staying with my father said she need space im hurting so much. If i get a chance to make this right i will

    1. @Madiha Jamal I am sorry to hear that. Please just take care of you. Love him at a distance but put you first. I started working out and praying. I even began socializing more. There a days now that I do not think about him. The window of reconciliation is definitely growing smaller and smaller. I have lost more than 30 pounds and my confidence is beginning to emerge again. I trust my God and I believe it will get better. There is nothing else to do once you’ve given your all. Let him be.

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    1. Thank you fir this im currently going thru this justcseperated today and I did almost all the toxic things in this video i pray to Jesus it can be healed ive pushed my love the only one ive ever loved away chasing love from chemicals and ignoring the love she was giving me I have this adductive personality and lose sight of what i have and it pushed her to cheat because i was so absent but i guess you could say i cheated on her with drugs after promising in the beginning we would be out that life i drug her back in just different chemicals my question is should she take me back after breaking her from the start

    2. here’s several ideas for saving your partnership
      Try to discuss more
      Cooperate with each other more
      Try to give and take more
      (I read these and the reasons they work on Pavs Partner Pundit site )

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    2. shawn cote I just got my relationship fixed and my ex wife is back to me and we are living happily like never before
      I got help from a powerful spiritualist and his spells works effectively just as you want

    3. Brother,
      Im praying for you. I been separated for a year now.
      Focusing on GOD has helped me slowly heal.

    4. Joe Garcia I just got my relationship fixed and my ex wife is back to me and we are living happily like never before
      I got help from a spiritualist and his prayers works effectively just as you want

  4. Im in a temporary separation and I swear, this video made me feel better and it indicates what I need to brush up on…to be a better me and a better person.

  5. Been separated for two years, finally realizing what peace of crap I was, trying to rebuild or at least not lose a true friend. Great video, thank you.

    1. I have been separated for 7 months and I’m just realizing how much my actions and behaviour hurt my wife. She asked me to leave and it took awhile for me to see what I was doing to her. Now that I know I’m trying to be the best me for our 2 kids and for her. I dont think she will come back but I hope I can salvage a friendship. Shes the best person I know and she deserved better. Feeling a lot of guilt lately.

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  6. The kids are really the ones that suffer when their parents choose to be juvenile and selfish throwing around the idea of divorce like it’s nothing

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    2. Amen Alex! My Wife just left and still won’t explain to my Daughter why. Be cold with me, I’m used to it at 47. But not our little girl. Smh

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  7. God is not a genie. He doesn’t grant your wishes. Without pain and suffering, we cannot know that he is “the healer”. Luke 12:31 “Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all these things will be added to you” When you pray to God, ask him to heal you ! You cannot pray God “into a box” by telling him how to heal your marriage. He will not change your spouse to heal you, but, he will certainly heal your pain and bring you more happiness than you would have had if your wishes had been met.

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